Then you’re reducing it down. spk_1: 55:32Yeah, and and so the only the only problem is it. And in some of the, uh, Hindu traditions, the shock D and the Shiva shock to being the female principle. And a man wants a woman who’s sexy and, you know, obedient to him. You’re gonna tell me what to do? Yes. Well, that’s great, but it’s still unconscious now. So, yes, a weakening is really important. That’s what the anima animus is talking about. It’s a beautiful process. spk_1: 6:44well. spk_1: 6:05Yeah, you know, it’s always good to consult the Greeks. We love them. Understand how your personal history influences your Anima or Animus and how you can transform your relationships to create a more conscious bond and attraction. So our conscious feminine Ah, we work with our our new system. Work is part of us remembering who we really are. You know, I gotta find it. But we didn’t realize it cause as kids, we see one perspective. Uh, that’s really what that soul level love is. And then we end up falling for someone. The anima and animus are described in Carl Jung's school of analytical psychology as part of his theory of the collective unconscious. Specifically, the anima is thought to be the feminine part of a man’s soul, and the animus refers to the masculine part of a female’s soul. We can them the scripts. But we don’t want to get stuck there because then we always see those people right, that. And so you have to look at those things not in the in the sense of judging or good and bad. spk_1: 0:21Saturday. And it depends on if you’re male or female. And then also, this is going to be on our podcast as well. spk_0: 1:5:50I’ve been in love with three men, but then, only after I started awakening did a really have rials shadow relationship. Because stay at home Mom is the one that it’s waiting for the father and, you know, to, spk_0: 57:10and submissive to the man and and or even just open to letting the man. And ah, we we wanna look at it not in a masculine like male male characteristic, but more of a energy then and and, um and this force in us, If we don’t, we don’t do our shadow work. spk_0: 36:39but we can exist transcending the ego. He moves through emotion when he’s upset when he’s, um, possessed, and so he’ll go for a run. Does this shed life to how you are currently dating and relating to potential mates? That’s why we feel it when we see people were just projecting it out there so understanding that it’s already here and we always hear Oh, the love is already inside of you, but you have to have a direct experience. And a lot of times, the shadow is not a direct like I have PTSD in my shadow, but there’s something similar, Like a fear. And so the surrender of the ego is where a lot of people get caught up right? They were all female until they the DNA switched two male. Obviously we see that, like you say there in both of us, both male and female, but one predominates. And ah, a lot of times we fall in love with people that break her heart because we’re we break our own hearts, you know, where we break our hearts every day we beat ourselves up. For the first time in my life, I knew I was fully and completely ready for marriage, because I worked through the fears and myths. There’s an other person in in our consciousness and our awareness now and how we relate to that other person. Often there’s a theme of Ah, betrayal. It’s simply that were. spk_0: 33:41Yeah, a lot of Ah, you know, I’ve heard so many stories of men who have said I really you know, the woman scared him because he really had that strong feeling for her. But through the forces also to find ourselves through another. 336.] The outcome need not always be negative, since the two are equally likely to fall in love (a special instance of love at first sight).”. But what would come out was this this little girl like you say, the people would become very, ah, kind of sentimental over. It has a specific function. The second is about doing difficulty. And so I think a lot of people think transformation means let me fix this little voice in my head, and then then that will have a transformation. We all have a mixture of late and or qualities, and it’s how accepting we are of that is Ah, and it’s hard to accept. I’m gonna end up being a housewife with has no power. Our archetype also dictates how we interact and relate to our partner. It’s like we’re like, probably says when I’m stressed about something, it’s like you’re fighting with yourself. They start crying, and then they’re like, We can’t talk about this tomorrow. I love that. Your response to that IHS, what is your response? So that awareness that were you’re aware right now that’s the only true reality. It’s right here. But they’re actually right for us because the reflecting her pattern. That’s beyond the persona, ego, personal history, shadow. Attraction, uh, were accepted. 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